A motivational piece from my upcoming book, "Get Off Your Butt!" 
How many times have you told yourself it's going to be a  great day? How many times have you actually made it happen? The  majority of Americans today would much rather have their bad day than do  something about it. There is no reason why you can't have a good day if  you want, unless you're dealing with a tragic event, of course. YOU  have to WANT it... YOU have to MAKE it happen! Below are some tips I  use.
1.) MAKE A PLAYLIST with music that puts you in a  good mood and gets you going. You know what I'm talking about... That  music that you just can't help dance to or sing aloud to every time it  comes on. Play these songs first thing in the morning, when you're  trying to awaken from those short hours of sleep you managed to get, and  as you're trying to get ready for what the day holds. 
2.) MAKE A LIST of the things you are blessed with or happy  for. An example might be your family, your job, your home, or even  something silly like your favorite show is coming on tonight. Be sure to  steer clear of negative thoughts or images while writing this list. You  can't allow one semi-negative entry on this list because it could send  you spiralling into a list that is sure to ruin your day.
3.) MAKE YOURSELF SMILE at the people you pass on the  street, at work, or even just in the grocery store. Now, sure there are  miserable, grumpy people that will look at you as if you were an alien  walking on earth in a woman's dress, but more often than not you are  sure to receiving smiling replies, and probably even a "Hello, How are  you?" When you show others you are happy, the become envious and want to  show off their happiness. It's a chain reaction. Try it out. I'm not  lying.
4.) MAKE IT GO in one ear and out of the other  when people say something that makes you want to stomp baby rabbits.  Here's a funny thing to try. When someone says something that gets your  blood boiling, picture something humiliating happening to them. Ha! Your  male boss coming into work late with a pink tutu and tights on is sure  to make you laugh. 
 
 
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